The guide every couple needs is finally here!
The ‘I do’ was a promise. The ‘we do’ is the daily practice of keeping it
From I Do to We Do isn’t just another “talk more” relationship book.
It’s the unfiltered, laugh-when-you-want-to-cry guide every couple needs to not just survive — but truly thrive — through the chaos of raising kids.
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Therapist, dad, and host of The Dude Therapist podcast, Eli Weinstein, takes you behind the scenes of the messy, beautiful, and exhausting reality of love after kids.
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With raw personal stories, therapist-backed tools, and zero fluff, this book shows you how to:​
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Tackle expectations, stress, and the invisible workload before resentment builds.
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Navigate conflict without letting it spiral into World War III.
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Rekindle intimacy that’s deeper and more meaningful than the standard date night.
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Communicate with clarity and compassion—even when you disagree.
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Build a true sense of teamwork so parenting feels like “us vs. the chaos,” not “me vs. you.”
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Find joy, humor, and connection in the small everyday moments that hold you together.
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Whether you’re knee-deep in diapers or juggling teens and carpools, this book is your reminder: your relationship is not a side project — it’s the foundation everything else depends on.
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If you’ve ever looked at your partner mid-tantrum (yours or the kids’) and thought, “What happened to us?” — this is your map for finding your way back.
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What People Are Saying...
“This book is a breath of fresh air for couples in the trenches of parenting. Eli writes with honesty, humor, and hard-won wisdom that makes you feel seen while also giving you a way forward. If you’ve ever wondered, ‘What happened to us?’, this is the roadmap back to connection.”
-Dr. Morgan Cutlip, relationship therapist and author
"From I Do to We Do is the kind of book every parent in the trenches of raising kids and keeping a marriage alive needs! With honesty, humor, and heart, Eli Weinstein offers couples both validation and practical tools for staying connected when life feels chaotic. This book is a lifeline for partners who want to thrive, not just survive, in the parenting years.”
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-Dr. Cassidy Freitas, LMFT and host of Holding Space podcast
"This book is a must-read is for anyone who knows there’s more available in their relationships—more honesty, more connection, more love—and is ready to step into that. Page after page, I felt Eli’s words jumping out at me, almost as if he were telling my story. I found deep resonance, solace and hope in this book. If you’re willing to be challenged to grow without losing sight of your humanity, Eli will meet you there. His wisdom isn’t just intellectual, it’s embodied, and it changes the way you see yourself and the people you love . . . in all the best ways.”
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-Mark Groves
